For couples
Kink compatibility
Two results, side by side. See which of your leanings complement each other, what you share, and where a conversation would help.
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How compatibility is worked out
Most roles come in pairs: someone who likes to lead fits with someone who likes to follow. For each pair, the comparison looks at both arrangements (you giving and them receiving, and the reverse) and keeps the better one. The fit is set by the lower of the two scores, because a dynamic only works as well as its less keen half.
The overall figure averages those fits across every dynamic that at least one of you scored 50% or higher on. Things neither of you is interested in do not count for or against you.
A number cannot tell you whether a relationship will work. It can tell you where to start talking.