BDSM and kink roles

Switch

You enjoy both leading and following.

Dominant

You like to lead and set the direction.

Submissive

You like to hand over the lead to someone you trust.

Caregiver

You enjoy a protective, nurturing role.

Cared-for

You enjoy being looked after and guided.

Master / Mistress

You are drawn to deep, ongoing authority in a relationship.

Devotee

You are drawn to deep, ongoing devotion to a partner.

Sadist

You enjoy giving intense sensation to a willing partner.

Masochist

You enjoy receiving intense sensation.

Rigger

You enjoy tying or restraining a partner.

Rope bunny

You enjoy being tied or restrained.

Brat tamer

You enjoy a partner who pushes back, and winning anyway.

Brat

You enjoy teasing, testing and playful defiance.

Primal hunter

You enjoy the chase and acting on instinct.

Primal prey

You enjoy being pursued and caught.

Owner

You enjoy caring for a partner in a pet role.

Pet

You enjoy taking on a pet role.

Degrader

You enjoy playful humiliation of a partner who wants it.

Degradee

You enjoy being teased or humbled in an agreed scene.

Praise giver

You enjoy telling a partner how well they are doing.

Praise receiver

You light up when a partner praises you.

Exhibitionist

You enjoy being watched or admired.

Voyeur

You enjoy watching.

Experimentalist

You are curious and like trying new things.

Non-monogamist

You are open to more than one partner, with everyone's agreement.

Vanilla

You prefer intimacy without power games or props.