Role
Vanilla
You prefer intimacy without power games or props.
Vanilla means conventional intimacy: affectionate, equal, and without roles or equipment. It is not a lack of anything. Plenty of people score high here and high elsewhere, because most kinky people enjoy vanilla sex too.
Signs you might lean this way
- Tenderness and closeness matter most
- You prefer to meet a partner as an equal
- Roles and equipment feel unnecessary
How the test scores it
Your Vanilla score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- Tender, affectionate intimacy with no roles or props
- Meeting a partner as an equal, with neither of us in charge
- Keeping things simple, familiar and close
Talking about it
If a partner is kinkier than you, ask what one small thing would mean a lot to them. If they are less kinky, do the same in reverse.
Take the kink test to see how Vanilla sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.