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Role

Brat

You enjoy teasing, testing and playful defiance.

A Brat enjoys pushing back: teasing, bending the rules, and making a partner work for it. The goal is not to win. It is to be caught, by someone who enjoys the chase as much as you do.

Signs you might lean this way

  • You like to provoke a reaction
  • Following an instruction straight away feels too easy
  • Being playfully "put in your place" is part of the fun

How the test scores it

Your Brat score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:

  • Teasing a partner and testing how far I can push
  • Breaking a rule on purpose to see what happens
  • Making a partner work for my cooperation

The other side: Brat tamer

Brat pairs with Brat tamer. You enjoy a partner who pushes back, and winning anyway. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.

Talking about it

Let your partner know that the cheek is an invitation, and tell them the word that means you are no longer playing.

Take the kink test to see how Brat sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.