Role
Brat tamer
You enjoy a partner who pushes back, and winning anyway.
A Brat tamer likes a partner who teases, resists and tests the rules, because bringing them round is the fun. It is a game both people are playing on purpose.
Signs you might lean this way
- Playful defiance makes you smile, not frown
- You like having to earn cooperation
- You enjoy a battle of wits
How the test scores it
Your Brat tamer score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- A partner who teases and pushes back, so I have to win them round
- Playfully putting a cheeky partner in their place
- Having to earn cooperation rather than simply being given it
The other side: Brat
Brat tamer pairs with Brat. You enjoy teasing, testing and playful defiance. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.
Talking about it
Agree on what counts as play and what counts as a real "no". The game only works if both of you can tell the difference instantly.
Take the kink test to see how Brat tamer sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.