Role
Degradee
You enjoy being teased or humbled in an agreed scene.
A Degradee enjoys being teased, embarrassed or talked down to by someone they trust, inside limits they chose. The thrill often comes from the contrast with how they are treated the rest of the time.
Signs you might lean this way
- Being embarrassed by the right person is exciting
- Harsh words can land as a thrill in the right context
- You like the contrast with everyday respect
How the test scores it
Your Degradee score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- Being teased or embarrassed by someone I trust
- Hearing harsh words from a partner in a scene we agreed on
- The contrast between being humbled in play and respected in life
The other side: Degrader
Degradee pairs with Degrader. You enjoy playful humiliation of a partner who wants it. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.
Talking about it
Be specific about which words and themes you like and which would genuinely hurt. Ask for reassurance afterwards if you want it.
Take the kink test to see how Degradee sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.