Role
Degrader
You enjoy playful humiliation of a partner who wants it.
A Degrader enjoys teasing, embarrassing or talking down to a partner who has asked for exactly that. It is theatre: words that would be unkind anywhere else are welcome inside an agreed scene.
Signs you might lean this way
- You enjoy making a willing partner blush
- Sharp, teasing words come easily to you
- You like knowing exactly which buttons are safe to press
How the test scores it
Your Degrader score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- Teasing or embarrassing a partner who enjoys it
- Using sharp words with a partner who has asked for them
- Making a willing partner blush
The other side: Degradee
Degrader pairs with Degradee. You enjoy being teased or humbled in an agreed scene. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.
Talking about it
Ask for a list of words and themes that are welcome and a list that are off limits. Follow it exactly, and be kind afterwards.
Take the kink test to see how Degrader sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.