Role
Devotee
You are drawn to deep, ongoing devotion to a partner.
A Devotee is drawn to giving authority to a partner in a lasting way, through agreed rules and acts of service. The community often calls this role "slave"; the arrangement is consensual, negotiated, and can be ended by either person.
Signs you might lean this way
- Serving a partner over time is deeply satisfying
- Rules and rituals make you feel secure
- You want the dynamic to extend beyond the bedroom
How the test scores it
Your Devotee score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- Giving a partner lasting authority over parts of my life
- Keeping rules and rituals a partner has set for me
- Serving a partner over time, not just in the moment
The other side: Master / Mistress
Devotee pairs with Master / Mistress. You are drawn to deep, ongoing authority in a relationship. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.
Talking about it
Know your own limits before you offer anything long-term, and keep people and interests outside the relationship.
Take the kink test to see how Devotee sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.