Role
Master / Mistress
You are drawn to deep, ongoing authority in a relationship.
Where a Dominant leads in the moment, a Master or Mistress is interested in authority that extends into daily life: agreed rules, rituals and responsibilities. It is a large commitment on both sides, negotiated in detail.
Signs you might lean this way
- Authority that lasts beyond one evening appeals
- You like rituals, protocols and agreed rules
- You take long-term responsibility seriously
How the test scores it
Your Master / Mistress score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:
- Having lasting authority in a relationship, beyond a single evening
- Agreed rules and rituals that a partner keeps for me
- Taking long-term responsibility for a partner who has given me authority
The other side: Devotee
Master / Mistress pairs with Devotee. You are drawn to deep, ongoing devotion to a partner. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.
Talking about it
Go slowly and put agreements in writing. Review them regularly, and make sure either of you can pause or end the arrangement.
Take the kink test to see how Master / Mistress sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.