Owner

In pet play, one adult takes on the manner of a pet and the other looks after them. An Owner enjoys the affection, the training games and the sense of being someone's safe place.

Signs you might lean this way

• Affectionate, playful care appeals to you
• You like teaching games and rewarding them
• A partner who is carefree and wordless is charming

How the test scores it

Your Owner score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:

• Looking after a partner who is playing a pet
• Teaching a partner playful games and rewarding them
• Affectionate care for a partner who is wordless and carefree

The other side: Pet

Owner pairs with Pet. You enjoy taking on a pet role. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.

Talking about it

Ask what the role means to them. For many people pet play is about affection and switching off, and is not sexual at all.

Take the kink test to see how Owner sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.