Pet

A Pet enjoys slipping into the manner of an animal companion: playful, affectionate, and free of adult responsibilities for a while. For many it is more about comfort and play than about sex.

Signs you might lean this way

• Being petted, praised and looked after sounds lovely
• You like play that needs no words
• Switching off the thinking part of your head appeals

How the test scores it

Your Pet score comes from how much these three statements appeal to you:

• Taking on the playful manner of a pet
• Being petted, praised and looked after without having to talk
• Switching off my thinking and just playing

The other side: Owner

Pet pairs with Owner. You enjoy caring for a partner in a pet role. The two are scored separately, and it is common to score well on both.

Talking about it

Tell your partner what kind of pet you are in your head and what care looks like for you. Agree how you will step out of the role.

Take the kink test to see how Pet sits beside the other 25 roles, or browse all roles.